How to attract happiness?

It is said that opposites attract, it is true, but one must also remember that these opposites also constantly clash. One person resents the other for the way they are perceived, not wanting to remember that they themselves are probably guilty of this. Very often, what arouses our interest in another person, intrigues us and attracts us with its difference, after a while begins to irritate. However, we do not want to see that we are equally to blame for these disputes.

Often disputes are caused by the fact that we try to neutralize our own troubles by looking for the culprit in someone else. We direct our anger toward people around us, forgetting yet another law - the law of attraction. The law of karma says that everything comes back - especially the energy we send out. If we emit negative emotions, anger and malice, we will also encounter it ourselves, but with an even stronger and more unpleasant one. They also do not have to be directed directly at us, affecting our loved ones, causing us all the more pain. Of course, it is much better to use this law for the opposite purpose - by doing good, later also receive it.
This can apply to everything we pass on to others - feelings, energies, thoughts. Also people, because by visualizing a certain type of person, we attract them. Unfortunately, we do this unconsciously, and summon people we would not like to meet. By feeling sorry for ourselves, worrying that we meet only poor candidates for a partner, we make it all the more likely that such disappointing men will stand in our way.

It is also worth considering exactly what we actually expect from the other person. If we feel like puffing up our beloved, fulfilling his whims and taking care of him, then we will be guilty of ourselves, meeting instead of mature men, boys in the bodies of adult people. So before we start resenting our partners, let's think about whether they are definitely not the answer to our attitude. Such a situation does not have to apply only to love, in any sphere, the blame for failures may lie with us. A number of misfortunes that happen to us are not necessarily the result of a curse. Seeing everything as the result of black magic and suspecting everyone of having bad intentions towards us only deepens our own bad mood and the bitterness and discouragement we feel. It is best to learn to accept everything that fate brings us with optimism, bad things will always happen, of course - they are part of life. However, by accepting them without discouragement, we will not only become stronger, but we will also attract good fortune with our well-being.


Everything depends on us. We are the ones who create our surroundings - events, the atmosphere of the places we are in, and even to a large extent the way others perceive us. By focusing on the positives and exuding positive energy, we influence reality, which thus becomes more pleasant and welcoming to us. Wanting to improve something in our lives, to disenchant the bad luck we think we have and to improve relationships with people, we need to start the changes with ourselves. The basis is a change in the way we think. Let's remember that every action always starts in the mind, and only then do they transform into physical action. It is exactly the same energy, only in a different form. And according to the principles of physics, the amount of energy must be invariant in nature, such energy that we externalize also comes back to us.
Of course, what comes back to us is what we sent out - that is, by exuding negative energy, we cannot expect happy events. Conversely, our optimism will make everything begin to go our way. The world of our imaginations, which we have been shaping all our lives, has a chance to be realized. This will require a big change in our thinking, because if someone is used to constantly complaining, it will not be easy for him to believe in the power of creation. Such optimism is quickly shared by others as well. We will see that people who we previously perceived as hostile to us will also begin to change, not only because our thinking has begun to change this, but also because they themselves have unconsciously begun to think more positively.